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Left high school thinking I was 16 months away from being a commercial airline pilot.

Instead, I walked away with $50,000 in debt, no license, and my life upside down.

Right after high school, I enrolled in flight school.

The pitch was perfect:

• 16 months

• Commercial airline track

• CRJ-700 certification

• FAA-approved simulators

• “Fixed Rate Program” with clear pricing

Even better—my biological father worked for Bombardier, the company that built the CRJ-700.

I called him. He confirmed the school was legit.

I was all in.

My brother and I drove from California to Mesa, Arizona to check it out.

✔️ Planes

✔️ Facilities

✔️ Students

✔️ Housing

Everything looked real.

I was told to show up with clothes and financial aid paperwork.

Done.

Approved.

Excited.

I packed my car and drove straight to Arizona.

Day one: my advisor was on vacation… and forgot to tell me.

No big deal, they said. Everything was “set up.”

Including my furnished apartment.

I arrive… and there’s a guy on the couch.

Surprise roommate.

He wasn’t expecting me. I wasn’t expecting him.

But he was further along in the program, so I figured—win.

First week at school? Awesome.

Flying daily. Learning nonstop. Grinding hard.

Then one night I wake up… and my roommate is standing at the foot of my bed.

Both startled.

I moved out the next day. 

Turns out my financial aid hadn’t actually hit yet.

I had no money.

Family had to wire me cash just so I could eat.

A classmate had a house and rented rooms.

Two of us moved in.

Aid finally hit.

I was back on track.

Or so I thought.

Then came my first cross-country flight.

Mesa → Tucson.

Emergency landing.

The plane wouldn’t restart.

An FAA official was already at the airport.

He inspected the plane.

Then asked:

• Where do you go to school?

• Who authorized you to fly this aircraft?

• Who can I call right now?

I watched him go from confused…

to frustrated…

to angry.

He was yelling on the phone:

“I’m not letting a student wiggle a switch to get this plane back in the air.”

He demanded the school retrieve me and the plane.

While we waited, he told me something I’ll never forget:

“You should never have been allowed to fly this aircraft in that condition.”

🚩 Red flag.

But I was young. Locked in. Committed.

I passed my written exam for my private pilot license.

Next step: the in-air practical test with an FAA examiner.

I show up ready.

The school pulls me aside:

“You can’t fly. Your account isn’t current.”

What?

My first license was $6,000.

I had over $50,000 in loans.

I request my statements.

That’s when everything collapsed.

I was being charged for:

• Plane maintenance

• Flights I never took

• Aircraft I was never in

Maintenance I wasn’t supposed to pay for—period.

I assumed it was a mistake.

It wasn’t.

They dug in.

Nothing changed.

I “owed.”

I left school at 18 years old:

• $50,000+ in debt

• No license

• No job

• No money

• No plan

My parents had co-signed.

Payments were over $1,200/month.

I spiraled.

Hard.

When I tuned 21, I cashed out the $1,400 investment account my grandparents left me.

Hired a lawyer.

We won.

Judgment in my favor.

The school disappeared.

Declared bankruptcy.

Seized student funds.

Turns out:

• The building was leased

• The planes were leased

• The owner had two companies

He lost nothing.

Still owned the planes.

I called the student loan companies.

They didn’t care.

They wanted their money.

Then I reached someone at Sallie Mae.

A decision-maker.

She listened…

and laughed.

Told me they had an army of lawyers.

Said I’d pay eventually.

That laugh changed everything.

This wasn’t debt anymore.

This was war.

I couldn’t afford to pay and fight.

So we made a plan.

Stop paying.

Document everything.

Prepare for court.

When they called, everyone was instructed to say:

“Sue us.”

They got aggressive.

Harassment.

Taking unauthorized payments from my account.

Shaming through employers.

Ten years later…

Every dollar was forgiven.

No payout.

No apology.

But I survived.

I rebuilt my credit.

I kept moving forward.

I walked into that school a kid.

I walked out a victim.

Then a phone call turned me into an emotionless machine.

If you’ve ever been crushed by a system that was “supposed” to work—

you’re not alone.

👉 Fight or fold?

What would you have done?