a lot of sex addicts become enraged when I announce my sexuality- they cannot grasp one bit how someone can be without sex- like I despise their sexuality or am secretly something else or that I am lying or that I have had sexual trauma, they think i should not tell people I am asexual like hide my own sexuality like gays were in the 70's -see a lot of people think because I am a jock pornducer that it is all one big lie but I have a digital sexuality and have married my church -a sexual will never be able to grasp someone that is asexual fully like gays vs straights etc there seems even to be a hatred within the gay community for us-I don't have to endlessly explain myself to people but I end up doing it anyway lol