I have cut (the woman playing my mother) out of my life...its just she is too chummy with my deranged sex addicted strange MMA fighter ex boyfriend that I lived with for "7 years" living with her in her building gave him the main key and kicked me out with 20 min notice in the middle of winter (her disabled son) my ex moved in and took over my whole life - I almost left for iceland for asylum over it and required multiple mental health arrests and emergency room visits -they both didn't care so they can live there forever together for all I care -- she pulled some control issues with me in her latest texts and I suffer from mean mother syndrome it was not a decision I took lightly but in my healing I will not tolerate boundary violations or you get shut out of my life I was thinking about it for awhile how much this all secretly bothered me and her narcissistic texts just sealed it for me.....I wish her the best but I am not going to live like that ! it seems like just me on this island but I am not going to have someone in my life that is so vicious