u cant harbor grudges or seek retribution with anyone (do what you want but if you do this shit you will have another few go arounds at life again to figure it all out some more lol) god knows there will be many opportunities to exact a grudge hahaha and those closest to you must get at least 1000 get out of jail free cards with you -even those we love can make very serious and grave mistakes you know but we can all grow from it -don't spend all your time gaining strangers as followers or whatever just cultivate the relationships you do have because essentially those have probably been with you through several strugglez already they are there to stay -treat them to dinner make a gesture that you care about them by buying their cat some treats or giving them a chocolate bar but honestly know when to pull the plug if someone crosses the boundaries you have set and if you have none sorry you are not doing this world "right"