Gay men are usually kind of in to me, I am a hot boyish nerdy chav bear lol but as soon as dey hear I am asexual they fucken run for their lives/lies like they find out they cant anally penetrate me endlessly and they are just done lol it helps that these days I am not really that co dependent like I was in other times in my life like I felt I really needed another guy to help me l;olz honestly most aces cop out and say no sex until marriage but all they want is a bromance or a really intimate friendship and are pretty generally sex repulsed with another person