You know what is not normal (abnormal) dysfunctional? people addicted to pleasuring body parts and openings in the body - people attracted to flaps of skin on the body until they receive a pleasant sensation what is bizarre about this world is that people aim to PENETRATE others endlessly and call it love....u should first fall deeply madly in love with someones mind and thought process sadly many do not have this quality of being interesting eccentric or smart and intelligent only have a huge flap of skin and blood and fat that they stick in you and you find that attractive.....