Most gay and young men do not want to reveal that their sexual orientation is painful and male RAPE !!! they all act like its all good and all after some squishing in with lube with a hot other stud like were programmed in porn etc but its not fun especially when you were expecting eternal bliss and never get it orgasm wise ....whatever! its kind of weird that through the sex acts were expected either pain or a baby and nobody normalizes spiritual and higher evolved non sexual platonic relationships we must rape our partner endlessly to keep the hot guy or condo and lifestyle its even worse when you marry and you are expected to perform daily or weekly or get the hell out