No you were NOT born per se as you are made to believe - think of your mother father or family/friends as a major motion picture television film and movie actor or actress they are a program from the matrix and a CONTROL mechanism meant and built to outsmart you they are billions of years older than you and more advanced they think anyway and your existence here growing up is not exactly what you were made to believe

the matrix is reset every 7-10 years or so 

you are so not even lightyears ahead of when you are born 

chances are if you are 40 today you are actually a million million quadrillion years old !!!

every single being you encounter is illusion (except the cute ones) lolz jk