I know a lot of my readers are suffering thru mental illness and poverty etc be assured there is somebody that is suffering 10x more than you - be grateful for the little things like having a 10,000$ estate there are those that have a $10 estate -render assistance any way you can when asked and if you cant offer money offer some sandwiches or a drink to somebody in need and yes it is ok to bring down the ego a bit and wait in a breadline or take on the services of a foodbank if you are literally surviving off bread rice and lentils on disability