Most str8 boys are hurt deeply by the first disgusting femme gay guy (with their own ambitions in play) that comes across their path and alters their sex drive, this causes a schism in their psyche and Sexuality... and causes vast amounts of pain and suffering because these gays usually have blackmail and other such things in mind for example.... which causes great stress to somebody questioning their natural instincts and puts them into a lifetime of a sexuality they never wanted anyway....